That's a really good point, Sir William. I think when I was growing up, I didn't realize how much my own approach was coloring how people treated me, including my own parents. It's easy to fall into the "angst-driven teenager" sort of thing.
Perception is everything.
Thanks; I had the same experiences as a kid. I think all teens go through it, as a rite of passage if you will. One thing that stuck with me, among all of the other things they've told me that have also stuck with me, is this:
"You may not like it now, but one day- you'll thank me."
Truer words were never spoken; can't tell you how many instances where my parents told me what the outcome would be but I just
had to find out for myself. Hard knocks indeed.
Having grown up and having had kids of my own, I truly appreciate the sacrifices, the advice- everything they did to give me all of the tools I'd need to succeed on my own. Amazing how I'll run into a situation and something they'd told me as a youth turns out to be prophetic.
So much so, that even now, at 40, I'll still ask them about things I'm unsure of just because my experience has been that not only do they know, but will often have a bit of wisdom to impart that will ultimately make whatever it is go easier.