That, and Thorsteinn, bud
it's different now than when we were young. I remember never being able to be diagnosed. Now, it's almost the exact opposite. My little one has it, guaranteed. But you know what, we know it, and can work with it. She's going to be home-schooled and what she enjoys is what she enjoys. The rest, if it's required she'll learn certain things must be done. She won't get lost in the crowd, or become a class clown because of sheer boredom like what happened to me.
it's why we moved to where we are. There's an excellent 4H program, and at 30 months, she's already showing an absolute love for horses. That and right now, she's glued to Star Wars Ep II and desperately wanting me to hurry up and finish her lightsaber
lol
there's worse things than being a nerd bud.
and worst case, we're all here for you regardless.