(Heh, I was typing this but didn't hit 'post' before going out to lunch, just replying to Sir Wolf's post here):
Well, Selohaar functions as an Order, with degrees that have to be earned. From the look of their Roll of Arms, not many of them rise very high. I know they have a lot of mysticism worked in, with rituals and ceremonies as well. Not all of them are interesting in knights and combat, as there are others who are there for other medieval interests or for the mystical magick side of things.
Of course our previous groups, UEMA/DAGGER, were meant to be like mini-SCA organizations. So while knights and combat were only a small part of those as well, they were more broadly focused on medieval re-creation and included titles of nobility.
I think for us, something focused just on knights makes sense. A narrow, well-defined scope will certainly help. But there are
so many different ways of approaching this sort of thing, it's not funny.
The Fiat Lux down in the Carolinas is another knighthood order in the region that we can look at as an example as well. They do armored combat with steel weapons, for charity events and the like, and treat it as a serious Order.
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(Additional after seeing Paladin's post):
I think that's more of what I've been thinking lately as well-- something more informal. I think most people who get into all this knightly stuff tend to arrive at it on their own. It makes them a bit of a "Knight Errant", and so the solidarity of an Order isn't 100% compatible with that.
I should point out that my Accolade was in DAGGER, which doesn't exist anymore. And the only reason it happened was because I stepped up and said we needed to have an order of knights in the kingdom, who could organize our combat system. We knighted a few people, and did nothing else with it before the group failed.
I thought about the idea of new members being an initiate, or aspirant at first. Knighting comes as full membership once they've shown they're here to stay. To me "squire" is really a job and not a rank, since back in the day, that's really what it was. Perhaps an initiate can be squired to an existing knight until knighted. Something like that.
As for swordplay, I'd love to have some days where we can get together and do that. I'm happy to teach what I know. I still highly encourage people to learn at VAF if they can, or with whatever group is local to them, as they'll learn much more that way. I can teach, but I'm better at doing than teaching, and I only consider myself "capable" at the doing part, not necessarily "good".
Also, some groups have the main entrance requirement simply as being sponsored by two existing knights. That might be good enough.
I'm all for keeping things simple and informal. Just some rules about how to get in, etc, so that there's an established way of doing things, but without the ranks and titles and politics and.. and.. and..
We'll have to think on the equipment part for sure. I like the 1100-1500 sort of idea, though I'd probably extend that to about 1600 since there are some really cool harnesses in the 16th century too. So maybe 1066-1600 (battle of hastings as a starting point).
Great discussion and ideas. Let's keep the ball rolling.