As I said, anything that could turn a simulated fight into a real one

And thank you for the kind words, I am blessed w/ cooperative friends who are willing to deal w/ my freak obsession.

The trick is to find people who are interested in martial arts in general, but have no access to actualy joining a group or such. In fact, my main sparring partner is primarily interested in eastern martial arts.
It's quite fun for all.
I'm even working on starting a fencing club at my high school. Lets hope it goes well.