That is well said, Sir Edward. There have been a number of times where, upon learning some of a person's history, my outlook on them has altered because of it. It should not be that way...I have always struggled with being judgemental, it is no more my right than anyone else's. Ha, my own story has raised more than a few eyebrows...as you said, one can never truly know the hardships another has experienced until they get to know them.