I forgot to reply here. I had heard about the fatality that happened a few years ago. They say it's the first jousting death in several centuries. The thought that sprang into my mind of course, is that it's a historically accurate way to go.
I'm glad that such fatalities are rare, but clearly there are many dangers when jousting. Broken bones are common, of course.
Sir Barchan mentioned the fall again to us this weekend. He said he broke 7 straps in that fall, but otherwise the armor absorbed most of it.