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Life. (be prepared for reading)
Leganoth:
LOL, well in the end I told her I did not accept her apology, that I still hate her, and for her to not speak to me again. Harsh, but deserved. lol
Sir Edward:
--- Quote from: Leganoth on 2012-07-18, 23:08:20 ---LOL, well in the end I told her I did not accept her apology, that I still hate her, and for her to not speak to me again. Harsh, but deserved. lol
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Probably deserved, yes, but this was also an opportunity to take the high-ground. I might have said something like, "What you did was wrong, and it really hurt me. I don't hate you for it, and I've moved on. However, future respect and forgiveness must be earned. And if you continue this pattern of behavior, don't expect any of your relationships to ever make you happy in the future, or anyone else to treat you any better."
It's a way of giving them advice, forgiving them, and at the same time getting some satisfaction from showing that you're doing fine and they're not. :)
Leganoth:
--- Quote from: Sir Edward on 2012-07-19, 13:13:29 ---
--- Quote from: Leganoth on 2012-07-18, 23:08:20 ---LOL, well in the end I told her I did not accept her apology, that I still hate her, and for her to not speak to me again. Harsh, but deserved. lol
--- End quote ---
Probably deserved, yes, but this was also an opportunity to take the high-ground. I might have said something like, "What you did was wrong, and it really hurt me. I don't hate you for it, and I've moved on. However, future respect and forgiveness must be earned. And if you continue this pattern of behavior, don't expect any of your relationships to ever make you happy in the future, or anyone else to treat you any better."
It's a way of giving them advice, forgiving them, and at the same time getting some satisfaction from showing that you're doing fine and they're not. :)
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Ahhhh this is true. Thats a good idea lol
Lord Dane:
I still say try out her sister or best friend. lol Hell, I'd even try out her mother after all that. That will rub it in. :P
Sir Siegfried:
A relationship with a woman is supposed to make you happy. As soon as it doesn't, there's no reason to bother with it anymore.
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