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Title: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Mike W. on 2014-12-28, 03:21:31
It's that time of year again to make a list of stuff we want to do, but most likely won't.
So what's on your list this year, got any ideas for some?

Here's my list. I'll be happy if I actually accomplish 5 of them:
Stay up to date on world events (from multiple sources of course)
Do a puzzle every morning
Read 10,000 pages (which for me is a list of 23 books)
Learn six new pieces on the piano
Drink more water (2 litres a day)
Actually eat more than one meal a day
Get on top of my medical issues (I really don't want to get my teeth extracted)
Attempt to put on some weight
Limit checking facebook to once a day
Volunteer once a month
Hand write a thoughtful, appreciative letter to a friend once a month
Save up $10,000 for a house down payment (guess that means not building another kit :( )
Learn to sew
Produce a drawing every month
Slow down my driving
Keep a clean bedroom and a clean car
Try to keep a plant/betta fish alive for the year (there's a lot about life to be learned from caring for something).

Also it just occured to me. What if we somehow organized some sort of buddy system to help us actually accomplish some of our goals. We would more likely accomplish them if we had a supportive friend to whom we're accountable. Just a thought...

Anyways, have a happy new year!!!
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Thorsteinn on 2014-12-28, 08:22:04
We need to get you a girl my friend.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Mike W. on 2014-12-28, 13:53:33
Yeah,Ed already tried that once. Didn't work too well. ::)
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Wolf on 2014-12-28, 19:15:32
Lol.
I REALLY have to lose weight again. The wife is gonna lose it with me so should be easier.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Thorsteinn on 2014-12-28, 22:48:03
Mine are:

Lose 50lbs from the thyroid attack.
Get back to fighting (somehow).
Become good at tempering chocolate.
Teach my wife some basic swordwork.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Rodney on 2014-12-29, 05:42:50
#1 Not die

#2 Get in shape (see item #1)

#3 Lose 25 pounds (see item #1)

#4 Make armour for my children

#5 Teach my children to fight SCA children’s rules (boffer)
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Aiden of Oreland on 2014-12-29, 06:14:45
My list is pretty basic:

1) Gain 10+ pounds of muscle for tree work and combat
2) Eat healthy and cut back on soda
3) Read (at least) one book a month
4) Do all of my school work
5) Learn more HEMA stuff
6) Complete my circa 1250 kit(both hard and soft kits)
7) Win at least one argument with my girlfriend
8) Continue to work on my chivalry
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Thorsteinn on 2014-12-29, 06:39:27
Quote from: Page Aiden
7) Win at least one argument with my girlfriend

So you don't want to be happy or share a bed again?  ;D
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Douglas on 2014-12-29, 07:12:30
Mine is the same thing I resolve to do every New Year, Pinky: Try to take over the world!


7) Win at least one argument with my girlfriend

Good luck with that one. ;)
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Aiden of Oreland on 2014-12-29, 07:23:27
Quote from: Page Aiden
7) Win at least one argument with my girlfriend

So you don't want to be happy or share a bed again?  ;D
Mine is the same thing I resolve to do every New Year, Pinky: Try to take over the world!


7) Win at least one argument with my girlfriend

Good luck with that one. ;)

Yeah... Because when she's right she's right, and when she's wrong, she's still right... The painful truth that I have to accept... :'(

But a man can dream can't he!
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Brian on 2014-12-29, 08:46:27
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Nate on 2014-12-29, 16:46:23
1) Get better Grades
2) find a job
3) Get the rest of riveted mail needed.
4) make scabbard for albion
5) Lose Weight (Of course!!!)
6) Finish and start reading more books
7) be better than I was last year.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Mike W. on 2014-12-29, 21:19:49
For the most part, goals are a lot easier to obtain if they're given reasonable and tangible limits.

For example:
"Be a better person" is a very vague objective, and very likely, we won't actively pay much attention to it. It'll be hard to notice any change. But if we change that to "Volunteer once a month at the local soup kitchen" or "Give a random compliment to a stranger every day" or "Help someone with a small favor everyday" etc. then you have a better chance at improving yourself.

Using quantifiable ways to measure progress will most definitely increase your chances of actually achieving your New Years resolutions. So if you're serious about "becoming a better person", brainstorm ways that you can break that down into quantifiable daily/weekly/monthly activities. If you can discipline yourself into doing these things on a regular basis, over time your natural demeanor will improve thus making you a better person.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Edward on 2014-12-29, 21:51:27

My resolution? This year I think I'm aiming for 3840 x 2160 Ultra-HD. ;)

Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir James A on 2014-12-29, 22:20:10
Get back on the treadmill (I haven't for almost 6 months!)
Continue with HEMA classes
Learn some basic armoring (internship / training)
Complete various house projects that have been started over the last 5-ish years but never finished (or finished to my satisfaction)

I completely understand that "more than one meal a day" thing! I used to have a really bad habit of that. I try to eat at least 2 per day now, unless I'm sick.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Lord Dane on 2014-12-30, 00:53:59
1.) Get my personal life in order.
2.) Get my butt back in shape.
3.) Finalize things with the (ex)wife.
4.) Work on my kit projects.
5.) Work on knighthood.
6.) Spend more time on my life & less at work.
7.) Take more time to travel new places.

Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: SerTimtheJailer on 2015-01-01, 01:40:03
Well heres what I hope for this year:
1.Get authorized and get decent at fighting in SCA events
2. Rent or buy a house with the gf
3. Get abs
4. Travel to a bunch of castles in the us or possibly take a european vacation
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: MDJouster on 2015-01-04, 21:56:18
I resolve to post on here and be an effective member of this group.

Lol.
Last year I resolved to improve my career situation and have done it.  I tried real hard to work with my boss an grow where I was.  As that didn't show signs of panning out I moved on to a new company and see plenty of room for growth.  I plan to follow this up by getting back to work on my education.
I think though the area I feel I need to grow more is in social interactions where I resolve to get to know more people and be a better friend to those I already know.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Rodney on 2015-01-06, 03:13:15
Quote from: MDJouster
... I plan to follow this up by getting back to work on my education.

Great idea!  I'll second this and add it to my own list as well.
Title: Re: New Years Resolutions
Post by: Sir Patrick on 2015-01-06, 15:42:49
1. Get my practice built up to the point where I don't have to moonlight anymore.
2. Build on my fitness gains from 2014.
3. Improve my kit (as if that needed to be said)!